Dear Aunt Temirol,
Thank you for always encouraging us virgins! I am one of the strongest girls who never gave up on the harshness of this world and wants to see and experience the light of hope. However, nothing seems to be happening. I’m giving up already. Keeping your virginity seems like a punishment. People tell me to get married or have a relationship where a man can help me. Mother, please consult me.
Dear Mummy Temirol
I’m one of your daughters and I’ve followed you since I was a teenager on Saturday Punch until 2013. Now 23 years old, she has a serious problem of giving all her money from her parents. In the meantime, I am in the process of applying to college, so I am saving very little from her 10,000 naira paid. Invoices are under my control and not my boyfriend’s responsibility. I’m sexually pure, but I think they want a man to spoil me. My sister does just that, so they love her so much and compare us sometimes, but I’m not ready to have sex until her wedding night. Talk to my soul, I’m so depressed.
Believe me, you can be anything you want to be, even if you can’t afford three full meals today. I know it’s a really tough time, but I would argue that not only will you survive, but you will ultimately have the best things in your life. It’s so sad that your parents want to be in charge of you and expect you to do anything to make money in the spirit of the times. What a tragedy! If your parents can’t guide you on the path of justice, who can?
As women we are created with many virtues and innate talents that can attract money and all we need to do is focus and develop ourselves optimally. Please know that I imagine what you’ve been through and that you’ve reached a stage of discouragement, but never give up. Now is the time to take advantage of that aching pain within you and stretch yourself as far as you can to uncover the gold mine within you, with which you can make money almost effortlessly.
Can you use your brain for more intellectual exploration? Can you use your beautiful hands and learn skills quickly? What are your hobbies? Turn yourself into a money spinner! Just don’t focus on men by getting too busy developing yourself and making the most of your life, your virtues and your potential.
You have to grow yourself and find your life purpose really early. Then your life will attract the right people instead of the men who treat you like a slave or a dog on a leash.
Believe me, if many women were emotionally, psychologically, academically, financially, and spiritually prepared enough, they would be better prepared for any man, for any satanic patriarchal society. will be the most difficult to abuse.
I’m sure a good number of your friends are sleeping with or married to wealthy men by now, but can you ignore them? Stop indulging in self-pity and pursue your own destiny. Spend all your time learning life skills instead of waiting for rich people to come help you. Take some time to learn some crafts and start making money yourself. Use all the energy that accompanies your current discomfort to gather the divine supernatural fire.
Please endure hardships for a while, refuse to defile your body, which is the temple of the Holy Spirit, and come see if God does not oversatisfy you. I promise you!
May your life charm the most honorable men in the world and be spoiled by kings! Isaiah 49:23.
As for the unreasonable, greedy and evil parents who try to turn their daughters into prostitutes, when their daughters run away today, what should they spend to build you a mansion in the future, so they don’t become homeless in the future? please.
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